Jennifer Hudson : If This Isn't Love

[Verse 1:]
I’m calling this fone up just keep tellin how much
I really love him cause he’s everything I want
He listens to me, cares for me
So why’d you leaving me?

God sent me an angel up from above
To love me for life
Things would be perfect
Only because it’s the only way
I can describe and say

[Chorus:]
If this isn’t love
See what it is, is like I’d be dreaming and just playin crazy

If this isn’t love
See what it is, cause I never felt like this baby

If this isn’t love

L-o-v-e what is (in) me?
L-o-v-e Oh…
If this isn’t love [x2]

[Verse 2:]
I’m selfish cause I don’t wanna share
When nobody not even knows
People that came before me
But see I ever believe.

God sent me an angel up from above
To love me for life
Things would be perfect
Only because it’s the only way
I can describe and say

[Chorus:]
If this isn’t love
See what it is, it’s like I’d be dreaming and just playin crazy, (oh)

If this isn’t love (No)
See what it is, cause I never felt like this baby
If this isn’t love

L-o-v-e what is (in) me?
L-o-v-e Oh…
If this isn’t love [x2]

So if you got real love
Let me see you put your hands up
See you put your hands up
The kind of love that beats
Wild like a club
Let me see you put your hands up
See you put your hands up, if this isn’t love
Cause I know I ain’t crazy
I know I ain’t trippin
I know I ain’t sleepin
I know that it’s love
See me with my hands up
If you think I’m dreamin
I know I ain’t dreamin
Cause this reason maybe
And I know what is love
If this isn’t love…

[Chorus: till end]

June... & Cupcakes! :)

6th month of the year... almost half year has passed... time past by really fast.

I might used to ask myself, have I been productive and used my time to the max... Now I can proudly say yes with a full-time job, 3 classes a week after work and also managing household stuff and wedding preparation ;) Proud proud proud... BUT not forgetting times when I fell sick! Well... at least I pull through ;) that's good for me!

Am looking around for cakes or cupcakes for special occasions... my sister found this place in Gardens Mid Valley called Delectable... they have really cute nice stuff. I love the packaging and design of the cakes and cupcakes: http://www.delectable.com.my/cupcakes/gallery-cupcakes.html

And of course there are many more... but am still searching...

Anyway, I still have 5 months...

Shoesssssss

• Alexander McQueen
• Anyi Lu
• Azzedine Alaia
• Badgley Mischka
• Balenciaga
• BCBG
• BEBE
• Betsey Johnson
• Bottega Veneta
• Brian Atwood
• Bruno Magli
• Burberry
• Carlos Santana
• Chanel
• Chloe
• Christian Dior
• Christian Lacroix
• Christian Louboutin
• Coach
• Dolce & Gabbana
• Donald J Pliner
• Ed Hardy
• Ferragamo
• Giuseppe Zanotti
• Gucci
• Hermes
• Jack Rogers
• Jimmy Choo
• Juicy Couture
• L.A.M.B.
• Louis Vuitton
• Manolo Blahnik
• Michael Kors
• Miu Miu
• Prada
• Rene Caovilla
• Roberto Cavalli
• Roger Vivier
• Steve Madden
• Stuart Weitzman
• Taryn Rose
• Tod’s
• Tory Burch
• UGG
• Valentino Garavani

Untouched, The Veronicas

I go ooh ooh, you go ah ah
lalalalalalalala

I can't lie lie lie lie lie lie
I wanna wanna wanna get get get what I want
Don't stop
Give me give me give me what you got got
Cause I can't wait wait wait any more more more more
Don't even talk about the consequence
Cause right now you're the only thing that's making any sense to me
And I don't give a damn what they say, what they think think
Cause you're the only one who's on my mind
I'll never ever let you leave me
I'll try to stop time for ever, never wanna hear you say goodbye (bye bye bye)

I feel so untouched
And I want you so much
That I just can't resist you
It's not enough to say that I miss you
I feel so untouched right now
Need you so much somehow
I can't forget you
Been going crazy from the moment I met you

Untouched
And I need you so much

See you, breathe you, I want to be you
Alalalala alalalala
You can take take take take take time time
To live live the way you gotta gotta live your life
Give me give me give me all of you you
Don't be scared
I'll see you through the loneliness of one more more more
Don't even think about what's right or wrong, wrong or right
'Cause in the end it's only you and me and no one else is gonna be around
To answer all the questions left behind
And you and I are meant to be so even if the world falls down today
You've still got me to hold you up up
And I will never let you down (down)

I feel so untouched
And I want you so much
That I just can't resist you
It's not enough to say that I miss you
I feel so untouched right now
Need you so much somehow
I can't forget you
Been going crazy from the moment I met you

Untouched, untouched, untouched, untouched, untouched
Alalalala alalalala
Untouched
Alalalala alalalala

I feel so untouched
And I want you so much
That I just can't resist you
It's not enough to say that I miss you
I feel so untouched right now
Need you so much somehow
I can't forget you
Been going crazy from the moment I met you

I feel so untouched
And I want you so much
That I just can't resist you
It's not enough to say that I miss you
I feel so untouched right now
Need you so much somehow
I can't forget you
Been going crazy from the moment I met you

Untouched, untouched, untouched

A Taste, Sofia J

La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la

When you find someone you know their heart is true
When you find this one you'll know just what to do
Like a breeze, your love came easy
Suddenly you came around and caught my eye
Now I'm alive

Look deep in eyes now can you feel it
Make this moment last forever steal it
Pull me close
Wanna feel your breath upon my face
Put those lips right up to mine
Give me a taste

La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la

Everyday I wake up you are on my mind
I go about my day and I'm just wasting time
I go crazy for you baby
Waiting for my moment I can see you smile
Now I'm alive

Look deep in eyes now can you feel it
Make this moment last forever steal it
Pull me close
Wanna feel your breath upon my face
Put those lips right up to mine
Give me a taste

Look deep in eyes now can you feel it
Make this moment last forever steal it
Pull me close
Wanna feel your breath upon my face
Put those lips right up to mine
Give me a taste

Look deep in eyes now can you feel it
Make this moment last forever steal it
Pull me close
Wanna feel your breath upon my face
Put those lips right up to mine
Give me a taste

Nevermind by Sofia J

Nevermind the things that we don't do
Nevermind the words that we don't say
When we touch the world just fades away
I don't care your clothes are on the floor
You don't mind I'll never know the score
Just a look a smile from you my world is right

Tell me what I wanna hear baby
Come on over next to me honey

We can scream and we can fight but
We'll make up before the nights up and it's okay
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

And I can cry and say I hate you and
You can slam the door like were through but I don't care
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

Yesterday we started out just fine
You were late and I was right on time
And the arguing got started and never stopped
I didn't really mean those thing I said
I should have kept those thoughts inside my head
Then you called and said your sorry too

Now we gotta make it up lover
We could never be without each other

We can scream and we can fight but
We'll make up before the nights up and it's okay
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

And I can cry and say I hate you and
You can slam the door I went through and I don't care
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

We can scream and we can fight but
We'll make up before the nights up and it's okay
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

And I can cry and say I hate you and
You can slam the door like were through but I don't care
Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

Oh whoa nevermind cause we are in love

Problems... Patience... Resolution

I have come across many friends who are either in control and set in their lives or some who constantly complaints and have issues. I bet we all have friends who loves to complaint and nothing seems to work for them.

Does it annoy you? Is it tiring having to repeat yourself in how to deal with some issues? Does it strain your friendship? To some extend... yes. We are being a true friend, trying to help them in going through difficult times. But when what you have said fell on deaf ears or your friend is in denial about a lot of things or defensive or just want someone to hear them complaint or worse of all is affecting you... then you will start to back off a little.

Friends like this... common questions we have are... why are they like this? how come they don't see it? how do I tell him or her anymore? what else can I do or say? when is this gonna end? can I take this any longer with him or her?

When this is happening, I think that we as friends who wants to keep this friendship, should be upfront and be able to talk about things. Tell your friend that this is how you feel. Not that you don't care but you seemed like you are of no help or whatever reason that you are experiencing. Talking about it is better than slowly backing off and then loosing the friendship.

People who are having problems... if it is too overwhelming in their opinion, they tend to move to a defense mechanism, which is in denial... that answers why they tend to deny a lot of things or do not see it your way... remember, people outside the picture see things clearer. Besides, people having problems always wanna know why and how... when they get an answer WHICH is something they wanna hear, then they will drop it. If they do not hear what they want, they will continue on. This is because they in actual fact do know what to do, they are the experts in their life, but they have no confidence, am not sure, or just want someone to back them up. Therefore, they will continue on this process of searching from someone else instead of within themselves.

I do have friends like this... I do feel irritated... it is difficult to tell them as a friend about what to do and what I think after being in this field because being a counselor or psychologist, we should not advice but help clients untangle their issues so that they can see it clearer and come to a solution. But some friends expect me to help them in as a psychologist and a friend. This can't happen concurrently but somehow they will not understand and still insist.

So, in conclusion, psychologist and counselors are not problem-free people... we have our ups and downs, issues like anyone else because we are all humans after all... But, patience is the way to go... having friends who do not understand, constantly tell them. After a while they will get it because if something is not true, but is drilled into you frequently, you tend to believe is at the end of the day :) Thus, conflict is resolved... Of course it is easy to say than done... but here comes patience again... never tried never know!