Not everybody can understand

There is always two sides of a story... you can choose to tell or not... no matter how or what, someone out of the picture will not understand it truly... so no matter how much you explain or try to clear up the misunderstanding... people will not see it the way you do... you can't make them nor force them... it all has to come from that individual.

Is it a tough thing to do? It could be... but the most important thing is, as long as you know you are on the right track and this is what you want to do, there is no point making others see it the way you do or even make them agree with what you have in mind... you have to feel good yourself... then things will fall into place.

There have been many books, and articles and talks about building your self esteem, which in turn would make you a more confident person... I do agree with that, but the most important thing is you believe in yourself and you are not having doubts of yourself... because if you do not care, trust, and believe in yourself, who will do a better job than you? When you do so, the rest will follow.

Fear is always the distracter or prohibition of you being the person whom you think you would or could never be... Have faith in yourself. You can do more than you can you know ;)

Have a great weekend everyone!

Ms Thridwheel, the gf slayer...

Hahaha... yeap, she found another victim now... well... not really another victim, but the focus this time, is not on my friend... but best friend number 2's gf...

Well, it's best friend number 2's birthday this weekend... so the gf, although knows Ms Thirdwheel does not like her, included Ms Thirdwheel in the surprise birthday party she had planned for her boyfriend... However, Ms Thirdwheel turned the whole thing around, called best friend number 2 and told him she had planned something for him and that she has invited the gf, best friend number 1 and gf...

So now... best friend number 2, thought that Ms Thirdwheel who was the one who is planning a party for him... when in actual fact, the gf of his is throwing him a surprise birthday party... now Ms Thirwheel got the Ms Congeniality prize while gf got zero... ;)

Well... although we always say, life does not always go as planned... but this is a plan stolen... just like your brillinat idea stolen by your colleague and sold it to your boss and he or she got the promotion... that kinda situation...

Messy... annoying... nothing to say... so now gf wants to do something about it... BUT... I doubt anything can be done.... I wish her all the best though.

Updates of Ms Thirdwheel

Spoke to my friend over the weekend... apparently, Ms Thirdwheel is still holding tight onto both his male best friends... Wonder what is she still trying to do... Guess she has another plan in her mind.

Well, I told my friend not to worry because someday everyone will know the true her... although it has been ages she is like this... but just gotta have some patience for the truth to come out. My friend does not want to put her down or socially destroy her... but just want her to back off a little and give them some space and zero issues...

But, it also depends on her boyfriend... Ms Thirdwheel could call and text all she wants... but if the boyfriend attends to it, she can't totally blame Ms Thirdwheel... so I suggest that my friend should have a talk with her boyfriend. Just say "I truly understand that you both are best friends, and it is fine for you both to meet up, but let me know... don't hide it from me..." I guess this is what I would say if I were her...

We can't stop people from doing the things they do, but we can change the way we handle them... they will never change their ways, and neither should you... but to win your battle, you might have to bend a little ;)