Why does it have to be this way?

Why does it have to take us bad situations to learn our lessons?

Why does it take us bad experiences to know who is true and who is not?

Why does it take us to appreciate the good people and good things in life after we have lost it?

Why does it take it something bad to befall us to learn how to be more careful or save some money for the rainy day?

Why does it take us bad experiences with mean people to appreciate out loving family and parents?

Why?

Because we are humans and they are certain things we need to learn from others and certain things we need to experience ourselves in order to not repeat the same mistake. And if we don't learn our lesson, we will keep facing the same issue, until we have finally learned... xoxo be patient no matter what... things will only get better.

What are the basics in a marriage?

Just wondering... what are the basic traits of a marriage?

For example, what are the basic duties of a wife and a husband?

Is is necessary for a wife to be the one doing the laundry, washing the dishes, cleaning the house, cooking, settling all household bills, getting groceries, and taking care of the children while still having a full time job outside of home?

Is it necessary for a husband to be the one who bring home the money just to pay the bills, then some money for the wife and children, read the papers, dirty the house, not help around the house as they need a break from work since their job s the most important, most difficult, and requires a lot of brain strength?

What is what?

Every action has a reaction

Yes... every action has a reaction... but what about every actions has a consequence?

Why would someone does something wrong... comes around and say they did not? However, when tables were being turned around, saying what if we are the ones doing it.... then it is a definite and loud WRONG! Why the double standards?

Worse off... when you get angry... they will ask you, why are you angry? DUH! Tell me you genius!

What should we do to people like this? Meaning how should we react to them? Or should we not react at all?

The Royal British Legion

It's 11.11.11 and at the 11th hour, stay 2 mins in silence please...

Why? Read it here: http://www.poppy.org.uk/

Lessons

Many do not think of the consequences of wasting time and prioritizing for the short term happiness, short term satisfaction, fair weather friends, and woman or man that has an ulterior motive. they rather spend their them with these people rather than their family, who are the most important people in their lives and who love them unconditionally. Why is that so?

That's a question, which I don't even have an answer for. Only assumptions I could make... which is mainly to give in to their short term needs. When those around them have tried hard enough to make things work due to the lack of time spent together... they might start to give up. Even before giving up, they might still have a couple more chances. Yet, it was not appreciated and let it stay as bad as it it.

When things no longer work, and the other person want out, its considered a dramatic move, unfair, or pure not understanding. Is it important to explain yourself further if that is the case? Should the person just move on and don't look back as things will not change and will never change. I that person wants to change, they would have changed long time ago... not when things happen.

Also if that person

loves you, they will not be so selfish and think of their on needs, but yours as well. Somehow... things do not work that way anymore... people are getting greedy and more selfish. Hence, sacrificing their loved ones just for the sake of their own selfish needs. But in the end, the person who hurts the most are the loved ones, but they would have nothing much to loose as they thing money can buy happiness and people around them. But what happens when the money is longer there? Is that when they start to think back the times when they had nothing, yet their loved ones stick with them through thick and thin. Isn't it too late already?

If that person changes to become someone better, then the loved one has just sow something that others would reap the rewards off... unfair? but that's life... and the truth with things. Normally people do not go back on the relationship. Hence, the chance is gone and will never come back. Even if they do, things will never be the same again... so... why bother... In the end, we only have question marks as to why a person could become someone else... we will never know... so let it go and don't look back but move forward and make your life there on even better and find true happiness yourself.

De ring

Of course shoes to go with it :p

IF I get married someday...

Pretty cupcakes

Gorgeous cakes

People are so talented that they made cakes look like artpieces and you not wanna eat them! Looks amazing :)

Waiting...

All we ever do is wait... everyday... every hour... every minute... every second... think of what you are doing right this instant... the objective goes back to waiting for the next thing to happen, orwaiting for time to pass, or waiting for a result...

We wait for:

1. alarm to ring

2. shower

3. breakfast

4. driving or walking or cycling to

work or school

5. to reach destination

6. stuck in a jam

7. for the lights to change

8. in line to get something, getting on the lift, getting on the bus, in to the parking lot

9. work to finish

10. meetings to be over

11. lectures to be over

12. lunch

13. time to pass faster

14. awful events to be over

15. to go home after work or school

16. dinner

17. grocery shopping

18. pay bills

19. house chores to be over

20. someone to come meet you

21. someone to come home

22. your pet to finish its business

23. exercise

24. things to change for the better

25. people to come around

26. your cellphone to done charging

27. a pay raise

28. a promotion

29. marriage

30. finding or meeting the right person

31. having children or starting a family

32. children to grow up

33. children to finish school and be independent

34. partner to be more understanding

35. partner to help around the house

36. delivery

37. dates to come

38. vacations

39. movie to start or end

40. the end to come...

The list can go on and on and on... because everything evolves around the waiting game... if you are patient, you

win. If not... you wait some

more and longer...