Lessons

Many do not think of the consequences of wasting time and prioritizing for the short term happiness, short term satisfaction, fair weather friends, and woman or man that has an ulterior motive. they rather spend their them with these people rather than their family, who are the most important people in their lives and who love them unconditionally. Why is that so?

That's a question, which I don't even have an answer for. Only assumptions I could make... which is mainly to give in to their short term needs. When those around them have tried hard enough to make things work due to the lack of time spent together... they might start to give up. Even before giving up, they might still have a couple more chances. Yet, it was not appreciated and let it stay as bad as it it.

When things no longer work, and the other person want out, its considered a dramatic move, unfair, or pure not understanding. Is it important to explain yourself further if that is the case? Should the person just move on and don't look back as things will not change and will never change. I that person wants to change, they would have changed long time ago... not when things happen.

Also if that person

loves you, they will not be so selfish and think of their on needs, but yours as well. Somehow... things do not work that way anymore... people are getting greedy and more selfish. Hence, sacrificing their loved ones just for the sake of their own selfish needs. But in the end, the person who hurts the most are the loved ones, but they would have nothing much to loose as they thing money can buy happiness and people around them. But what happens when the money is longer there? Is that when they start to think back the times when they had nothing, yet their loved ones stick with them through thick and thin. Isn't it too late already?

If that person changes to become someone better, then the loved one has just sow something that others would reap the rewards off... unfair? but that's life... and the truth with things. Normally people do not go back on the relationship. Hence, the chance is gone and will never come back. Even if they do, things will never be the same again... so... why bother... In the end, we only have question marks as to why a person could become someone else... we will never know... so let it go and don't look back but move forward and make your life there on even better and find true happiness yourself.